You’re Too Vegan!! You’re Not Vegan Enough!! AY!!!

Yeah, it ain’t easy walking the vegan tight rope. Someone always has an opinion about your veganism and it’s usually that you’re WAY too extreme, in one direction or another. One false remark, and you’re plummeting from your tightrope straight into an argument.

If you’re a relatively “keep the peace, I don’t want drama in life” kinda person (like I generally try to be), conversations on veganism can push you out of your comfort zone cause it’s no blase kinda topic. Finding the right balance between explaining your reasons for veganism and not offending the person in front of you as they devour their steak can be dicey. Being a vegan business owner, as I am now(!), makes things even trickier. Trying to please everyone is exhausting and, more importantly, impossible. So sometimes you just gotta keep it real…

YOU’RE TOO VEGAN…

I receive this message a lot. In fact, I’ve even lost friendships over it. I am just WAY TOO EXTREME with my beliefs for some people. Here’s my one belief: animals should not suffer.

It’s a very simple belief and most of the world would actually agree with it. So what’s so extreme, that I walk the talk? That I don’t wear a fur coat when I walk my beloved dog? Cause that would be considered what, balanced?

If you’re vegan you likely also have this very extreme opinion that animals should not suffer. You’ve probably watched enough undercover videos to know that our food production system is the most magnificent form of large scale suffering our world has ever seen. BILLIONS of farm animals are being raised and killed every year in our country alone in the most brutal, inhumane and despicable (yet oh so profitable!) manner possible. Billions is a really big f’ing number.

Because you’re of the opinion that animals should not suffer, you decide that you don’t want to contribute to the suffering. There goes meat AND dairy from your diet! BYE BYE.

If you don’t know why dairy is so bad, click here.

Suddenly food is no longer a casual item. SUDDENLY EVERY BITE HAS PURPOSE. There is no longer ANY SUCH THING as having a casual burger during a ball game. Your burger came from a live animal that suffered like nothing you’ve ever seen before and therefore that burger no longer even looks like food in your eyes; it looks like the brutalized diseased decaying corpse that it actually is instead of the juicy tasty protein that used to make your mouth water. The power of the mind…

If you haven’t taken the time to educate yourself on where your food comes from, take a day, do some research on factory farming, watch some undercover videos. If it’s cool with you that animals suffer like that, then by all means, eat your burger and eat that sucker with INTENTION because with each bite you take you support something.

TEAM EDWARD or TEAM JACOB? Let’s review who you can support:

Team 1: insanely rich factory farmers who make BILLIONS of dollars annually by (a) exploiting animals in the most inhumane ways imaginable, (b) pumping your bodies with low quality, antibiotic filled and growth hormone pumped foods that are making us sick and fat, (c) ransacking our environment, (d) wiping out smaller more humane farmers who can’t compete with their insanely low prices or mass production, (e) exploiting the often uneducated and illegal immigrants who work for them, (f) paying off the government to protect their interests at everyone’s expense, and (g) filling their pockets with DOLLA BILLS Y’ALL while their cheap meat indirectly causes us to spend millions trying to fix all the health and environmental problems their masterly crafted system is creating; OR

Team 2: “crazy extremist animal rights people” – a/k/a people who care about animals, their health, the environment, and not being brainwashed by greedy corporations – a/k/a TOTAL NUT JOBS!

So do research, make a decision, and support what you’re going to support, but recognize that no matter what you decide, you are a very active participant in the food production system that is torturing animals, making us sick and fat, and destroying our environment on the most exponential scale imaginable. Feel free to admire its efficiency while you decide.

If you decide to be apathetic or live in ignorance, you are the most active participant there is. Factory farmers are counting on you. You are their biggest client. You are their silent cheerleaders. You are TEAM FACTORY FARM - put it on a tea-shirt and wear that sucker proudly.

Then remind me again, who’s extreme?

So yes, having these views can obviously cause some friction – apologies to all the people I’ve already pissed off in the above paragraphs. People are as emotional about the food they eat as they are about politics, religion, racial equality and gay rights. Right up there with opinions on discrimination are opinions on theright to eat or not eat a hot dog chased by a milk moustache.

Because of this, I’ve learned to not be quite so frank in personal discussions on the topic. I’ve been learning the steps to the vegan verbal tango to make sure I say things just right so as not to step on too many toes. But ironically, it’s so acceptable for people to quickly label vegans as “extremists” or “crazy animal people”, no worries about having two left feet in that dance. Why are vegans given such little verbal romance? We are coming from a compassionate place, how can that be so wrong?

So my challenge to you would be to reconsider viewing someone as an “extremist” just because they’re going against the norm. Cause the norm sucks, it’s filled with chemicals, cruelty and ignorance. Why be a part of the norm when the norm is doing no one any good? Substitute the word “extreme” with “compassionate” and maybe you’ll see things from a different perspective.

YOU’RE NOT VEGAN ENOUGH…

Ay, this can be the hardest pill to swallow. The ‘my veganism is bigger than yours’ attitude. I have to say, I am not a fan. We are all fighting the same fight. Trying to change this “norm” we’re talking about is a battle against a very rich and powerful beast, so we must fight together.

The point of the above rant was not to say that vegans are better than non-vegans or vice versa, it’s to show that we are all victims of the same corrupt corporate greed and deeply embedded cultural traditions that support that greed. No one is a bad person for the food choices they make. There is nothing harder than departing from the traditions we grew up with. There is nothing easier than ignoring the truth about where our food comes from and viewing the chicken on your plate as nothing more than a tasty nugget, instead of the sentient being it once was. We were taught to live this way from the day we were born. We are hidden from the realities of factory farms because factory farmers put blinders on us, they’re not stupid! But they sure hope we are.

Veganism is not an arena for competition, it’s an arena for shared knowledge and awareness. No one is better than anyone. We are all imperfect beings and all we can do is push ourselves to be the best we can be with the tools we are given.

So my second challenge to you would be to support and encourage people who are challenging themselves in any way, vegans and non-vegans alike. NEVER label anyone, never diminish people’s efforts. No one is too extreme, too selfish, too weak or too strong when they’re coming from a place of compassion. If someone is trying to be better, more aware, more sympathetic, that is amazing. Never discourage this as this is the best attitude anyone could ever have in any area of life. Apathy and ignorance are the only enemies in this battle. When you create battles within the same team, your team loses.

(photo courtesy of klsmith77)

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19 Responses to You’re Too Vegan!! You’re Not Vegan Enough!! AY!!!
  1. jc
    January 13, 2011 | 11:14 AM

    powerful and enlightening words. worthy of inspiring real conversation, but i fear it will not
    hopefully people can use your prompting to look within and acknowledge that they are in fact participants, regardless of their desire to be one

    ignorance is often bliss, but only when you hold it tight while covering your eyes and ears. we can’t all fight every fight, and often the path of least resistance plays nicely into our respective laziness as a culture. however, if one decides to remain ignorant – at least acknowledge it. it doesn’t make anyone a bad person, it simply provides room for improvement

    clearly baby steps will have to substitute for strides in the battle of ‘great taste v. less killing’ for now. let’s try to encourage one another to be open to information (especially uncontroverted scientific evidence), as knowledge is strength. then do what we can to get and be a little better each day

    thanks Liz

    • lizzy
      January 13, 2011 | 1:19 PM

      So well said JC. It’s hard to take a stand on these issues because people are often so resistant to the conversation. But baby steps are being made everyday and I have faith that compassion will eventually prevail. And like you said, knowledge is strength.

  2. Genna
    January 13, 2011 | 12:28 PM

    A-Fuckin-Men sister!!! I LOVE this kick ass stance of yours and that you used the F-Bomb [so not what I'm used to from you, tee hee]

    Your clear passion for animals is apparent in your COMPASSION – you are an absolute delight doll and I’m proud to be in the vegan team with ya xxx

    • lizzy
      January 13, 2011 | 1:23 PM

      Ha ha! Love that you loved it Genna! Sometimes you just gotta dump the polished balancing act and spit it out like it is. Felt good to write this :)

  3. Abby Marean
    January 14, 2011 | 11:47 AM

    Thank you so much for writing this entry. I really admire and respect your work as an animal advocate and businesswoman. Socially, it sometimes is really tough being vegan. Yet it can be so rewarding when you open someone’s eyes to the horrible system of cruelty, exploitation and misinformation this country has created. Thanks for telling it like it is and encouraging people to be compassionate, open-minded and respectful of all animals – human and non-human alike.

    • lizzy
      January 16, 2011 | 6:11 PM

      Thanks Abby! Yeah, it can be really tough socially. Navigating conversations can be so tricky. I’m still learning as I go and always trying to improve, which is all we can do. It’s wonderful meeting other open-minded and compassionate people like yourself though!

  4. Djanira
    January 18, 2011 | 10:34 AM

    Loved this article Liz!

    I’m happy and proud to have joined team vegan!

    • lizzy
      January 18, 2011 | 11:48 AM

      YAY!! Team Compassion & Health!! :)

  5. patchur white
    February 10, 2011 | 11:08 PM

    liz ((superfarmgirl))
    we need to convince our congress to educate the public as to present/+/pending truthful food industry laws, such as some faith in egg cartons labeled ‘cage-free vegetarian eggs’! please do not give up the fight for all farm life!

    • lizzy
      February 12, 2011 | 10:31 PM

      I hear you Patchur! Thanks for reading and being so compassionate!

  6. Marisa Herrera
    February 21, 2011 | 2:14 AM

    Excellent article, Liz!! I relate to every word you wrote! My journey as a vegan fuictions or 27 years, and two as lacto-ovo vegetarian prior that, hasn’t always been easy. I have learned that we, vegans, cannot force or demean people for not following our beliefs/diets. We can share information, facilitate awareness, and support those who seek our help. Most important, is to lead by example and continue to be the voice for the defenseless.

    I love your website and respect and admire your convictions, which extend to your business! You lead by example! Right on sister!!

    Purrs,
    Marisa

    • lizzy
      February 21, 2011 | 11:19 AM

      Thank you so much Marisa!! 27 years as a vegan is amazing! I agree whole heartedly. It’s taken me a lot of practice and trial and error (lots of error ;) ) in learning how to effectively communicate why I’m vegan without offending anyone or scaring anyone off. Like you said, share, facilitate & support – love it!

      So nice to meet you here and thanks for the website love! Stay in touch!

      xoxo,
      Liz

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